Archive - a newsletter

How to cook for a picky eater

who can’t cook for themselves (plus, a recipe for sausage and greens pasta)

2 hrs ago •

Mar 6 •

December 2024

Holiday Planning Q+A

ask your questions here, and here I will give answers

Dec 19, 2024 •

Getting dressed these days

and thoughts on "maternity wear"

Dec 18, 2024

A giant bowl of salted chocolate pudding

is what you should serve for dessert at your Ham Party

Dec 17, 2024 •

Not a gift guide

Dec 10, 2024 •

Here to soothe all your holiday anxieties

on drinking during the holidays, how to accept gifts you hate, and telling your friends they maybe shouldn’t host

Dec 6, 2024 •

November 2024

A lot of juicy Thanksgiving etiquette questions answered

with help from Kate Berlant

Nov 22, 2024 •

“I’m only here for the sides,” well, same

here's where to find them

Nov 20, 2024 •

For those who want to know more about the turkey

this is your newsletter

Nov 19, 2024 •

(Some of) your Thanksgiving questions, answered

sure, let your brother have Taco Bell for Thanksgiving

Nov 15, 2024 •

It's Thanksgiving, again

we're doing more, we're doing less, we're eating a lot of beige, soft, creamy foods

Nov 14, 2024 •

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